Book Review: The Things They Carried by Tim O’brien

Tessa: I recently re-read one of my favourite books, The Things They Carried by Tim O’brien. This is a fictionalized but also autobiographical account of a young man’s experience in Alpha Company in the Vietnam war. O’brien’s masterful rendering of the young men’s struggles in this company draws the reader in as eyewitness to their daily lives. His contrast with the often mind-numbingly boring day to day routine, the camaraderie, the love, and the fear with the sometimes deliberate, as well as inadvertent acts of horror and violence, is what makes this book so powerful.

This is the second time I’ve read The Things They’ve Carried and it holds up in the second reading as well as the  first. This short mention of the book doesn’t really do it justice but for those interested in war, particularly the Vietnam war, than this is certainly a ‘must read’. It is an incredibly humane book that provides eyewitness insight into the psychology of some of the men who fought, lived and died in the Vietnam war.

Tim O’brien has written numerous books but another one that I read and very much liked was In the Lake of the Woods , a wonderful psychological thriller which is about what happens when one wilfully chooses to forget about war.

If I had to go to a deserted island one or both of these books would be in my napsack. (if it made it through the storm that is!)

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Delicious chocolate wheatless cake!

Tessa: For those of you planning the last big indulgence before the “get fit”  New Year’s Resolution kicks in January 1st, be sure to  squeeze this Nigella recipe in under the wire. When Dave heard me offer to make Christmas Eve dessert he looked horrified. I don’t blame him really because I have something of a haphazard baking style that usually results in disaster. Somehow this doesn’t dampen my enthusiasm and I’m happy to report that this yummy Chocolate Cloud Cake turned out quite nicely. Also, for all of you who can’t eat wheat this is a perfect dessert that tastes surprisingly like chocolate brownies.

Here goes:

9 ounces bittersweet chocolate

1/2 cup unsalted butter, softened

6 eggs; 2 whole, 4 separated

3/4 cup superfine sugar

2 tbsp Cointreau (optional) but I say use the booze

grated zest of 1 orange (optional)

9 inch springform pan

Cream Topping:

2 cups heavy cream
1 tsp vanilla extract
1 tbsp Cointreau (optional but as above)
1/2 tsp unsweetened cocoa for sprinkling

How to make this luscious beast:
Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
Line baking pan with parchment or grease.
Melt the chocolate either in a double boiler or a microwave and then let the butter melt in the warm chocolate. Beat the 2 whole eggs and 4 egg yolks with 1/3 of the sugar, then gently add the chocolate mixture, the Cointreau and orange zest.

In another bowl, whisk the 4 egg whites until foamy, then gradually add the remaining sugar and whisk until the whites are holding their shape but are not to stiff. Lighten the chocolate mixture with a dollop of egg whites, and then fold in the rest of the whites. Pour into the the prepared pan and bake for 35-40 minutes. Cool the cake in its pan and don’t be surprised when the cake sinks into the middle. Whip the cream with the Cointreau. I cheated and added a little bit of sugar because well, I like my whipping cream to be sweet. Pile the whipped the cream on top, sprinkle with cocoa and enjoy.
Thanks Nigella!

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Meeting Alex Haley

03590001.jpgDave: When I was 20 and without much cash, I decided to leave Vancouver and see the world. I had heard about the opportunity to travel on freighters – free passage in exchange for work – so I hitch-hiked down to Los Angeles and managed to get a place aboard a German vessel bound for Australia.

My day started at 5 a.m. when I made coffee for the captain, then washed dishes, mopped hallways and cleaned the crew’s quarters.

Soon after departing,  I discovered that these freighters also offered luxury travel for a few, well-to-do passengers. The three cabins aboard the ship were beautiful, spacious and very luxurious.

 One by one I met the five paying passengers on board: an ex-Governor of Texas and his wife, a couple who owned a professional sports team, and Alex Haley, author of Roots.

I was instructed by the crew not to talk to these passengers, unless approached by them first. However, I was playing darts one day, (on the ship’s beaten-up dartboard), when Mr. Haley appeared, and to my surprise, asked if I could teach him the game.

The next few hours were spent teaching Alex Haley how to play darts, a time during which our two different worlds met… He was both shocked and interested to learn that I was heading to Australia with no return ticket, no place to stay, no plan for getting back, and only $1200 in my pocket. That afternoon we explored various topics, including the way that some individuals feel compelled to seek out adventure, and also the experience of travel (or other ventures), without a plan or specific itinerary.

Right from the start, he made me feel relaxed. He asked genuine and original questions, which caused me to think, before answering. I admitted I was embarrassed because I hadn’t yet read Roots; he laughed at my honesty. In spite of our different backgrounds, we became friends.

He told me he had spent many years with the Coast Guard and being at sea helped him write. This trip he was working on Queen. I remember hearing him tapping away on the keyboard each day as I walked by his cabin.

At the end of the journey, to my surprise and delight, he gave me his address, saying that if my travels ever brought me to his neck of the woods, to look him up.

On the note he wrote:  To David, with brotherly love to a fine young shipmate, Alex Haley, Roots. And when I left the ship in Australia, he wished me good luck.

Meeting Mr. Haley made me realize that travelling was not only about seeing other places but also about meeting other people and learning of their worlds and experiences. It was a great way to start, what turned out to be a long and adventurous trip.

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The Modern Ayurvedic Cookbook: Healing, Healthy Recipes for Life

Tessa:

For anyone interested in

a) good food b) good food with an exotic, world cuisine (pre-dominantly Indian) slant c) vegetarian recipes d) a variety of mainly wheat-free recipes, e) dead curious to find out what your dosha is, don’t be put off by this book’s title.

Ayurveda is based on the principles of a 5,000 year old Indian healing tradition that believes that spiritual and physical well-being are the key to good health and longevity. For those interested in learning more about ayurveda the book offers a brief but good overview, including a dosha questionnaire which allows one to determine how to balance your personal constitution through diet.

For the rest of us who are just interested in yummy food  The Modern Ayurvedic Cookbook, won’t disappoint. The recipes are simple and easy to prepare,  starting with breakfast, salads, soups, entrees through to breads, grains and desserts. The soup section is particularly good with recipes for Acorn Squash Soup, Carrot Ginger Soup, Spiced Pumpkin Soup, Spinach Vegetable Soup and Warming Cauliflower, Broccoli & Miso Soup.

Entrees include dishes such as Lata’s Green Masala with Paneer, Indian Fusion Ratatouille, Soft & Spicy Eggplant Curry. For breads and grains there are all kinds of great recipes for those great unwashed… the wheat intolerant. Carrie’s Spelt Oatmeal Bread, Corn Chapatis and Spelt Chapatis and Ugali ( a staple of Kenya made of corn flour).

I could go on but you get the idea. If this kind of food is your thing than The Modern Ayurvedic Cookbook might just be the cookbook for you!

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The World’s Most Dangerous Rumballs!

Tessa: Every November my friend Diane and I make our highly prized, secret rumball recipe together. We double the recipe which means that we put exactly one 26 ounce bottle of rum into our rumballs. One year at a tree decorating party someone asked what the recipe was. I very nicely said that the recipe was top secret and couldn’t be given out. The next year the same question came up and I once again declined to give out the recipe explaining that it was top secret. People seemed genuinely perturbed by this and suddenly the mood turned ugly as people tried to squeeze the secret out of me. I held firm for the next four years not only refusing to give out the recipe but also refusing to give away my rumballs. Now I’ve decided to do a bit of a scrooge reversal and not only have I started to share the dangerous rumballs again but also share the recipe. So here is the recipe with a small warning that these rumballs could cause some trouble! Continue reading

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Dave the Dutch Man

Tessa: When Dave and I got married two summers ago I decided to keep my last name. Afterall, I had had it for a very, very long time. Dave and I had jokingly talked about him changing his last name and sometimes we would sit and think of great last names for him like Dave Bonaparte, or Dave Baron von Rippel. It was funny at the time.

So we went to Quadra Island where we barely survived getting married but finally did and congratulations went all around and there was great happiness and joy in the air. When we got back home I was checking out my emails when I saw one from Dave with a new last name. Mine. I had been copied into what looked like a press release with Dave announcing that he was no longer the Dave everyone new and loved but was now Dave so and so and please use this new email address and also please take note that from here on in he was also Dutch. This is how I found out Dave had not only taken my nationality but also my last name.

When we were in a store some time later the woman looked at his last name and said “Oh, you’re Dutch.” And he said, “Yes, I am.” This is the first I had heard that Irish/English was the same as Dutch but who am I to argue.

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Why Does Speedskating Hurt So Much?

Tessa: This week I returned to speedskating practice after a brief hiatus due to a cold. But really it wasn’t the cold as much as I just couldn’t stand it anymore. First of all, after twelve years of practice it’s hard to always be in group three. Even when I skated with the kids group I was always in group three. Never once did I make it to group one. And now that I’m up with the big guys (and Agatha! who is 75 and still faster than me) there’s definitely no hope of a shift. And also, quite frankly, waking up on Tuesday mornings at 6:00 am has been killing me. KILLING ME. Then there are the Wednesday night practices which are extra long just so I can be tortured for an extra half hour.

This season we started off with an endurance program. To my way of thinking we should be building to the endurance program so that by the end of the season I can have worked my way up to those dreadful 10 consecutive laps. Anyways, to make a long story short I was hating the sport. And even though I don’t want Dave to skate with me because I know he’ll be faster than me in let’s see… one session, I really miss him. Especially at 6:00 in the morning when it would be nice to have his company on the ice. So, all in all, I was considering quitting because a) my ego couldn’t take it anymore b) my body couldn’t take it anymore c) Dave sure looked nice and cozy and warm in bed at 6:00 in the morning. d) Agatha Van Der Starre, my hero, was attending some game show in Holland.

Anyways, because I’m a sucker for punishment I went back last Tuesday morning. Predictably, because Arianna, our coach is Satan, she made us do a pyramid which basically means you skate as many laps as you can until your eyeballs bleed or you pass out, whichever comes first. This time Agatha was there having returned from her visit to the mother country. I’m not sure what it is, but when Agatha is there, everything is better. It doesn’t matter what ridiculously evil program Arianna (her daughter) pulls out of the hat, Agatha loves to skate so much that even though I know I’m going to DIE, its easier to die when I’m laughing with Mrs. Van Der Starre who never fails to complete the program no matter how tough it is.

So, I’m back skating regularly again because I love it. It’s hard and it can be awful but when I try to not take myself too seriously and lighten up about it then the love grows. Even though it hurts like hell.

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Skids – Cathleen With

Tessa: Twice a week I work downtown in an area known as the Downtown Eastside, one of the poorest neighbourhoods in Canada. When I used to live in East Vancouver I would often walk to work which took me through the heart of this district. Sometimes in the early morning I would walk past alley ways where I would see men, women and children disappear, turning corners, hovering, standing, sometimes sleeping. Often I would see someone, a child, and I would avoid eye contact because it was uncomfortable. That’s because they weren’t just any kids. They were street kids. Or Skids.

Cathleen With’s debut collection of stories Skids is based on her own experience as a troubled young adult when she spent time in rehabilitation centres downtown and became friends with many of these kids. What Cathleen With has accomplished with this elegiac collection is to provide a glimpse of understanding for all of us who simply don’t know or understand.

Having said that there is nothing in this book that is easy to read. To say that Cathleen With is a beautiful writer would be misleading bu what she does most effectively is to capture the raw voice of hard experience of society’s most vulnerable members; its young. These are portraits of kids who’s lives haven’t been easy and for whom there is no easy escape to another life. That she doesn’t provide easy answers in these twelve remarkable tales is, of course, the point. There is no happy ending in these tales that are an almost cinematic rendering of lives most of us can’t even imagine. And yet somehow she offers us insight into how love and redemption work in an unimaginable life. I think she’s a remarkable writer for this reason alone.

You can visit Cathleen at: http://cathleenwith.blogspot.com.

A portion of the proceeds of this book will be donated to Covenant House.

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The Memory Keeper’s Daughter: Kim Edwards Book Review

Secrets. Every single one of us has one. Whether we like it or not it occupies a small place inside of us that keeps us alone and separated from the world as though a film exists between you and those closest to you. It’s what makes us unknowable. Kim Edwards in her debut novel The Memory Keeper’s Daughter explores how a secret insidiously weaves its way through the heart of a young family and how a generation later it continues to shape the relationships affected by it.

In 1964 Dr. David Henry and his wife Nora make their way through a snowstorm to the hospital as Nora’s contractions come faster and faster. Unable to make it to the hospital Dr. Henry, an orthopedic surgeon, delivers the children himself. The first child, Paul is a healthy boy, The unexpected second child, Phoebe, is mongoloid. In a split second decision that will irrevocably change the course of his and his family’s life he asks the attending nurse, Caroline Gill, who is in love with him, to take the child to a home. She takes the child to the home and horrified by what she sees she takes the child to another city and raises Phoebe as her own.

The fact that Dr. Henry sends his child to a home would not have been an uncommon decision in 1964 and ultimately he believes he is acting out of love for his wife. What he doesn’t realize is that the lie that is created grows between them until ultimtately their relationship falls apart many years later. From the moment the children are born the lie and everything that is never said between them grows into palpable silence and isolation. And still he cannot bring himself to tell her because as the years pass the nature of his crime weaves itself into the very fabric of his life and his relationships with his son and Nora. Their house is large, affluent and empty.

The parallel story follows Caroline Gill and Phoebe’s life as she struggles to find a her place as a single mother with a challenged child in a brand new city. That we see Phoebe grow up as a delightful young woman who’s mother has fought tooth and nail to allow her the opportunities of any child, makes it even more poignant because what we see here is the fabric of a rich life. One full of challenges absolutely but definitely rich.

This is, of course, not only what Nora Henry has been robbed of but what David Henry and his son are robbed of as well. The Memory’ Keepers Daughter is an auspicious beginning for this debut novelist. Kim Edwards skillfully weaves the insidious nature of this secret throughout her narrative without ever making the reader want to abandon or dislike the characters. Dr. Henry makes a bad choice but her skill as a storyteller allows us to see him as he is; a flawed man but also a good man. Again, this is a great read. It’s a tearjerker that makes you think as well as feel.

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My Sister’s Keeper and The Memory Keeper’s Daughter

Tessa: I recently finished reading My Sister’s Keeper by Jodi Picoult and The Memory Keeper’s Daughter by Kim Edwards. Both of these books are coincidentally New York Times Bestseller’s and both of them are tearjerkers. So if you’re looking to give gifts this Christmas that are guarenteed to reduce friends and family members to tears then be sure to pick up a copy of either of these two and that should do the trick.

I’ll start with My Sister’s Keeper. Although Jodi Picoult has written several novels, I had never actually heard of her but a friend lent it to me urging me to read it so we could discuss it afterwards. Admittedly I had a hard time putting this book down. The story is about two sisters Anna and Kate. At the age of two Kate is diagnosed with leukemia. Through preimplantation genetic diagnosis Anna is conceived as a perfect bone marrow match for her sister and until the age of thirteen unquestioningly allows herself to be subjected to countless transfusions, surgeries and shots. But by thirteen Anna begins to question the trauma of these endless rounds of hospital procedures. When Anna’s parents offer her kidney for transplant to Kate Anna initiates legal action against her parents for medical guardianship over her own body. It’s clear that although a hospital would never compromise a healthy child to save a dying child, Anna’s permission is never asked. Her parents take it for granted that she will subject herself to procedure after procedure for Kate.

At the heart of this narrative is the issue of medical technology and this is a topic that Picoult navigates her way around very well. Having been a parent of a very sick child she is able to draw the reader into the emotionally charged and tortured journey that families of very sick children are forced to make. The choices clearly aren’t easy and when Anna’s mother pushes the envelope in favour of her dying daughter she at times appears monstrously one-sided and blind to Anna’s needs as a human being. In the end Anna was conceived as a donor to save her sister’s life. What her mother neglects to understand is that her daughter is a human being first.

The premise of this story is timely, as the long term implications of stem cell research unfolds in the American political arena. But like all issues, we as a society, are increasingly blindsided by ethical implications of medical technology. This book certainly has its weaknesses, namely the uneven and sometimes ludicrous characterizations of Campbell Anna’s lawyer, and the fact that Anna and Kate’s mother after years of being a stay at home mom returns to court to handle her own case against her daughter. Perhaps this is done to add levity to an emotionally charged topic that stands at the centre of this narrative. Overall, however, this is a riveting book that is sure to generate debate and yes, tears.

Next book review: The Memory Keeper’s Daughter

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