Poem of the Week: If thou must love me, let it be for nought by Elizabeth Barrett Browning

If thou must love me, let it be for nought
Except for love’s sake only. Do not say
‘I love her for her smile—her look—her way
Of speaking gently,—for a trick of thought
That falls in well with mine, and certes brought
A sense of pleasant ease on such a day’—
For these things in themselves, Belovèd, may
Be changed, or change for thee,—and love, so wrought,
May be unwrought so. Neither love me for
Thine own dear pity’s wiping my cheeks dry,—
A creature might forget to weep, who bore
Thy comfort long, and lose thy love thereby!
But love me for love’s sake, that evermore
Thou mayst love on, through love’s eternity.


A big thank you to Alison McGhee for her generous curation of all these beautiful poems.
For more information on Elizabeth Barrett Browning, please click here: http://www.poets.org/poet.php/prmPID/152

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Easiest, Fastest Thai Green Curry Fish (with yam and asparagus) known to humankind

This is great to prepare, especially after work when you don’t have much time. It literally takes 20 minutes to make and is fantastic.

This recipe is for two people but you can go ahead and double it.

2  tbsp oil

1 tbsp thai green curry paste

1 can coconut milk

1 tbsp fish sauce

1 tbsp brown sugar

Bunch of asparagus (cut into pieces)

1/2 large  yam cut into small pieces

1 lb cod or white fish (you could even use salmon, scallops or prawns or a combination of them)

1 lime

Heat oil in frying pan to medium high.  Saute green curry for 1 minute. Add coconut milk, fish sauce and brown sugar. Add yam and asparagus and cook for 8 minutes. De-bone fish and cut in pieces. Then add fish and cook until done. Serve over top of rice, quinoa or with wraps. Garnish with lime. Ta da! Close to instant deliciousness.

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Poem of the Week: Roofmen by Patricia Fargnoli

Over my head the roofmen are banging shingles into place
and over them the sky shines with a light that is
almost past autumn, and bright as copper foil.

In the end I will have something to show for their hard labor–
unflappable shingles, dry ceilings, one more measure of things
held safely in a world where safety is impossible.

In another state, a friend tries to keep on living
though his arteries are clogged,
though the operation left a ten-inch scar

and, near his intestines, an aneurysm blossoms
like a deformed flower. His knees and feet
burn with constant pain.

We go on. I don’t know how sometimes.
For a living, I listen eight hours a day to the voices
of the anxious and the sad. I watch their beautiful faces

for some sign that life is more than disaster–
it is always there, the spirit behind the suffering,
the small light that gathers the soul and holds it

beyond the sacrifices of the body. Necessary light.
I bend toward it and blow gently.
And those hammerers above me, bend into the dailiness

of their labor, beneath concentric circles: a roof of sky,
beneath the roof of the universe,
beneath what vaults over it.

And don’t those journeymen
hold a piece of the answer– the way they go on
laying one gray speckled square after another,

nailing each down, firmly, securely.

BIG BIG thank you to Alison McGhee for curating these beautiful poems.
For more information on Patricia Fargnoli, please click here:http://www.joefargnoli.com/

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Half-Blood Blues by Esi Edugyan Book Review

Victoria-based writer Esi Edugyan’s Half-Blood Blues was long listed for the Man Booker Prize and was the winner of the prestigious 2011 Giller Prize. This is a book that makes me grateful for writers like Esi who bring to light stories you didn’t even know existed. History has a way of creating large brush strokes of remembrance, leaving everything else to the dustbin of history.

In Half-Blood Blues she focuses her attention on the plight of mixed race Germans during the rise of Nazi power. Hieronymous Falk is an exquisitely talented mixed-race trumpeter born and raised in Germany who escapes with his fellow black american musicians Chip and Sidney to Paris when it’s clear that they are no longer safe in an increasingly ‘ethnically pure’ Germany.

While in Paris they meet Louis Armstrong and soon return to doing what they do best – making great music. It’s not long, however, that the spectre of a German occupation of Paris looms and they are once again rendered ‘stateless’ and unsafe. It is while they’re waiting for their exit visas to return to America that Hiero disappears.  Sid watches from behind a closed door as his friend is taken into custody by the ‘boots’ and is never heard from again.

The book flashes back and forth between the present where both Chip and Sidney return to Europe as elderly men to take part in the launch of a film on the incredible jazz musician – their old friend Hieronymous Falk.

It’s clear as the story unfolds from the present to the past that the relationships between the men were fraught with personal and professional jealousies and betrayal. As Sid and Chip journey back to Germany to celebrate their old lost friend – Sid is forced to confront his own demons and duplicity.

What did I like about this book? Well I liked the exploration of what it means to be ‘stateless’ which these men are. Sid and Chip left America for Europe to enjoy greater cultural freedom and acceptance – only to have the spectre of the world’s ultimate white crazy man rise to power and Hiero, as a black German national, belongs nowhere. In Half-Blood Blues art is your heart, it’s your country.When nothing else sustains you, it will.

There is also a beautiful scene captured when the Germans are marching in Paris. Knowing that there is nothing to hope for, the young men find a cellar and make music. Because there is nothing else and creating beauty and living in that single moment is the only thing left that matters. I loved that moment.

I also thought the scenes in the book that dealt with the early days of the German occupation were well done. There’s a haunting scene where Chip and Sid are wandering through a government building when they realize it has been abandoned except for one man. It sent chills down my spine.

What I didn’t like about the book was the main character Sid. I found him wooden, uninteresting and frequently irritating. The person I was most interested in, Hiero, was written instead as a bit character – the character around which everything revolved but around whom we know very little.

A lot of reviewers also made mention of Edugyan’s ‘voice’ – the vernacular used by the characters. A friend of mine who recommended this book also loved Londonstani which I didn’t like either. There was something about it that didn’t quite ring true or seemed to somehow get in the way. I know a lot of people loved this aspect of the book but it didn’t really work for me.

All in all though, I found this a worthwhile read. I have a soft spot for books that deal with this time period and this one certainly does it justice.

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Twenty Things about 2011

I love lists so here’s my list of 20 great things about 2011.

1. I loved camping this year and so did Reuben.
2. I found a job I like where I learn new things every day and I work with people who are smart and allow me to enjoy frequent belly laughs.
3. I went to a talk by Paul Hawken that inspired me.
4. I made new friends.
5 I thoroughly enjoyed the times I spent with my crew of buddies both here and in Calgary.
6. I had the chance to dance my ass off and I loved it.
7. Thanks to Dave I was completely surprised.
8. Thanks to Dave I got to hear new music and bands.
9. I got an iPhone (which I love).
10. Yoga, running and a commitment to staying away from food that is bad for me (gluten, too much dairy and sugar) allowed me to have a year where I felt healthy and good almost every single day.
11. I started reading again.
12. I loved doing the Grouse Grind and the BCMC trail with my good buddies Eva and Susan.
13. My pal Reuben is better off now that he’s eating home cooked meals!
14. I can think clearly about my future – and going back to school is a part of that.
15. Everyday I see people who are committed to making the world a better place and that inspires me.
16. I started volunteering and it has opened my eyes.
17. I have good people around me who have helped me become more compassionate.
18. I am going to work hard to waste less.
19. I still miss my mom everyday but it hurts less.
20. I understand fully that the only thing I have is right now and that makes me feel life more. And that makes me happy.

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Poem of the Week: The Woman Who Shoveled the Sidewalk by Stanley Plumly


She clearly needed more than money,
which, anyway, wasn’t much.
Her dog, one of those outlawed fighting breeds,
black-and-white and eyes too far apart,
kept snapping at the leash, the cash
I placed as simply as I could into her open hand.
Her small stalled car was what she lived in,
the death seat and backseat all-purposed into piles.
She was desperate so she blessed me.
I could almost feel my mother standing there,
the way she’d greet the lost after the war.
A woman vulnerable is powerful.
Poverty in all the texts grants grace
to the raveled and unwashed,
just as the soul we assign to what is singing
in the trees, even in winter, lives
in the face and voice of the least.
You could see the random child in her,
who had got, today, this far.
You could hear, under her words, silence.
There wasn’t that much snow, enough
to take its picture if you left it untouched.
Her companionable, hostile dog was what she had,
who stayed in the car while she started in earnest,
as if the work were wages. Young, off
or still on drugs—I couldn’t tell—
she was alone in every hard detail.
Each day is lifted, then put back down.
Tomorrow’s snow turns back into the rain.
I had to be somewhere but knew when
I got home she’d be gone. And the walk,
from start to finish, would be clean.

Big thank you to Alison McGhee who curates these beautiful poems.
For more information on Stanley Plumly, please click here: http://www.poetryfoundation.org/bio/stanley-plumly

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Best Rum Balls Ever

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Here they are  in all their glory! This year’s batch is ready to be shared! Dangerous Rum Ball Recipe here.

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Poem of the Week: Then I Walked Through the World by Leah Goldberg

Then I walked through the world
as though someone adored me.
Laughter unfurled through heaps of stones,
and a wind through fathomless skies.

Then I walked through the world
as though someone dreamed me fair.
Across the night abysses bloomed
and the sea’s mirrors painted my face,
as though someone were writing poems about me.

I walked, until I reached an utter stillness within:
then, it seemed, something might begin.

A million thanks to Alison McGhee as always for curating these beauties.
For more information on Annie Kantar, please click here: http://www.smartishpace.com/poet_index/?alpha=k

For more information on Leah Goldberg, please click here: http://israel.poetryinternationalweb.org/piw_cms/cms/cms_module/index.php?obj_id=3170

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Introducing Reuben. Cutest dog ever!

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